My present guess is that “Aisa pehli baar hua hai, 17-18 saalon mein” is written to the beloved of the author of this fine piece, meaning something like that it took him 17-18 years to find his true love, though I cannot even tell what language this is written in! My advice, though, might be that she listen up!
In Laws of attraction: Why do you like him/her?, I listed some scientific (evolutionary) reasons as to why you may be attracted to someone. Though these reasons may play a role in deciding your love subject, there is a lot more happening in your brain and physiology when you’re in love. Before looking into the importance of love, let’s first have a quick look at the state of mind of a “lover”. This will help you decide whether you’re in love or not. If you’re in love then:
- You want to be with that person all the time
- He/she is perfect. You completely ignore his/her shortcomings (and looks goes out of the window)
- You feel anxious, excited even doing normal day to day activities like bathing, reading. You’re thinking about her 85 percent of the time (from a scientific study mentioned in link below)
- You feel like a superhero who can…
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